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Do You Know What Training Really Is ?

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Lets take cock sucking out of the picture, while we are at it lets take a rule out a lot of you have, or have had.
Your not allowed to cum for a month, or maybe even two months

The second I spoke about is pure ego, and nothing more. The you are not allowed to touch your pussy or cum without my permission was something I did when I was in my twenties. If I had come across anyone who had been in the lifestyle for anytime when I said those words I was laughed at. They knew then I was not a experienced Dom.

Before you begin your Training there are a few questions you need to ask yourself.
1. Is this lifestyle really for me? You know your own feelings, but much research must be done, before being able to correctly answer.
2. Why do I need to be trained?
3. What do I hope to get out of being trained by a Dominant ?
4. Just how far do I want to go ?
5. What are some of my limits ? You probably have an idea, but you also may need to explore.
6. What Type of Dominant or Master should I be looking for ?
Remember we are all different , we all have different values, and methods. Some are very strict, while some are not. Some have rules and protocols while some do not. Some want to see their property excel in life, while others will still care about you but you are more of a physical object.

These are just a few of the questions you need to ask yourself before you begin your journey. Know what you need is very important. Never let anyone tell you what you need, or how they are going to change you.

Meeting your new Dominant and taking an assessment should be done while you are getting to know each other. This covers many areas.
Your health should be talked about in depth, medications, phobias as well. Your work should be discussed, as well as family and friends.

Here is a list of health questions I used.
Do you have any dietary restrictions?
Are you allergic to anything? (Scene materials as well as common allergies)
Do you wear contact lenses or glasses? Dental bridges or hearing aids?
Do have any injuries that can keep you from service or play type training? (Neck, back, knee injuries)
Do you have any ongoing illnesses or chronic problems? What type of medications or treatments do you take for these?
Make a list of all the vitamins, herbal or nutritional supplements your take?
When was your last blood test and physical? Will you be willing to take a blood test or physical?
Do you use recreational drugs (including alcohol or tobacco)? What? How Often?
Do you have any addictions or are you struggling with an addiction?
Are you recovering from an addiction? Are you clean and/or sober? How long?
Have you suffered from abuse as a child? As an adult? (Physical, verbal, psychological, sexual, spiritual)
If so, are there any triggers that can cause you trauma now?
Do you abuse others, or have abused others, in the past? How have you addressed these problems?
Have you ever had any type of sexually transmitted disease? How was it, or is it, being treated?

All of these questions are very important, this is one of the ways besides communication you get to know someone. This will also prevent someone from getting hurt.

While there may not be a cure for many mental illnesses, I do believe that under the right house, and the proper structure , most can be kept under control, and managed.

Clarification. You will need clarification on the entire process. You will want to know what will be expected of you.

If you work or have children there will be limitations that will have to be put into place.

Just so you know this is not a Wham Bam Thank You Process. These discussions is something that should take place over time. This is a courtship, this is the getting to know each other time.
Go out to eat, catch a movie, long walks. The most important thing is to take your time. Communication is the most important thing in your relationship, but and there is a but, compatibility plays a major role.

Call me Sir, call me Master, call me Daddy, never fall for those demands. Each title no matter what should be earned and not demanded.

The RULE thing is never really clear, a lot of Dominants want to start out with rules before even entering a relationship.
Once your relationship gets to that point, when a Rule is giving out, there should be a clear explanation on why that rule is being put into place.

One thing I do and did, when I explained something to Arianna, I explained it in such a way there were no questions. Everything must be very clear.

It is also impossible to be told to memorize 30 or 40 rules. If the Dominant expects you to remember each and everyone , then he should be able to repeat them all.

We all have training ideas, but what works for one will not work for another.
The one thing you have to remember you are being trained to fit someone’s needs, it is you that will have to adapt to your new world, not the Dom.

In many cases you may need to be trained, looking for that structure in your life, or you may be perfectly fine, and your just entering a D’s or M’s relationship, at any rate you are still going to adapt to someone else’s world. Your life is going to really go through changes.

Some of the things that are important to us, is our family, we also need friends, you need to be able to go out, we all need down time.
During your negotiation part you need to make sure you will still be allowed to do the above.

If the Dominant you are meeting tells you he is married, make sure the spouse is okay with what he is doing. This is where it gets tricky because you cannot just take his word, after all if his wife says its okay for him to see other people, then it should be okay for you to talk to her.

He will come off well my wife is a bitch, she does not understand me, she does not fulfill my needs, she is always nagging.
Well!!! If things were really all that bad he would not be there.
I am staying because of the children. Yea that is a lame excuse.
He is cheating because she will not suck cock or take it up the ass but you will.
Remember you are now number two , and you will always be number two.
No Birthdays, no Holidays, no vacations, you are just a secret.

Training should start almost immediately once the two have agreed to enter a D’s or M’s relationship. The most effective way to train is while you are living together.
If your Dominant is a once a month warrior then you are not really going to get the whole picture.
This also happens when you see someone who is married, your in it for the benefits, and he is in it for the ass, and nothing more.

You the Submissive or Slave should have a good idea when it comes to what your looking for, and what your needs are. This is something you need to cover as well.
When you meet a new Dominant, and you are to intimidated or scared to talk openly about your needs then he is the wrong Dom for you.
A Dominant should make you feel at ease, relaxed. He should be easy to speak to, and not make any demands.
If you cannot speak freely and express your needs, how can you fully submit to him?

The first meeting all eyes should be on you. You should be doing all the talking, and the Dominant should have his total attention on you. If your shy he will keep the conversation flowing with questions
During this time he is taking in all the information. This is the time he is putting a training program together in his head.

Your question should be what does your training consist of? What do you think I will get out of your training ?

What are your protocols ? Are your protocols just private or are they public as well?

One thing I did, is I would request a journal be started something I could read everyday or week. I did not have to do that with Arianna because she had ten years worth of journals, so I really got a deep look inside her life.

There are rules and then there is sex. The two should never be mixed. Rules are meant to provide structure, and guidance.

A rule telling you to send a video on your anal training does not benefit you at all. You being told as a rule to send nude pics, does not benefit you at all.
If these are the things he is interested in, then he does not have your best interest in mind.

Being trained is real, and you need to be sure you are in the hands of someone who really cares about you. Someone who has open communication.
Our lifestyle is you are a True D’s or M’s is a mind thing. It is all about the Dominant getting inside your head, and having the ability to stay there, keeping you in that submissive frame of mind.

The first 90 days Arianna had almost zero freedom. She was allowed to call and visit family, she has a dear friend she was allowed to see, and of course work.
Other than the things above she spent 90 days learning Viles way.
Rules a few at a time, protocols, again Viles way, learning in service. Learning how to be a host in an M’s home.

The first thing I did, was introduce her to friends I had within the community.
Why did I do this? She has been in two Bad D’s relationships prior to me.
I told her I had been in the lifestyle for more than 20 years. So not that I had anything to prove, I introduced her to very close friends who had known me , here in the local community. This was a way to validate myself. I am who I said I was.

Any Dominant who tells you he has been in the lifestyle for 20 years knows people in the lifestyle, and he should be more than willing to introduce you to his friends.
99% of the time he will be active in the local community, if he is not then something happened.
It does not take much for a Dominant to get a bad name, and once your shunned , there is really not much he can do as far as meeting new subs or slaves, unless it is Via Collarme or something.
That should be a bad sign if he tells you he has no friends in the local community.
I know and I know others who need that interaction. We need to be able to talk to our friends, someone we can relate to.

There are warning signs to look for, and many times you see them but you over look them because you think he could be the one.
Well! he is nit the one, because there are thousands of ones out there, and if you settle for less than what you need, your relationship will be short lived.

Many Dominants who have no real life experience will try to isolate you, because they are still in the insecure mode. The married Dominant will even more isolate you, because you are his fuck toy on the side.
These are also warning signs you need to look out for, keeping you isolated is where the abuse begins, and once it starts you are the only one who can stop it.

You are a submissive you have the right to question, more so you have the right to say no.

Remember everything is a negotiation , this is when you talk about your needs, what you expect out of the relationship, as well as your limits.
You want everything out on the table, so there are no surprises.

Now the most important issues. What are you going to get out of the relationship? If you are not living together , how much time will be devoted to you?
Is the relationship going to be one on one or he is Poly? That is a very important question, if you do not ask he may bring it up at a later date.

If you are asked a direct question then give a direct answer, and do not tell something someone wants to hear, be honest.
If you ask a direct question you expect a direct answer.

If your going to submit, you cannot submit on your terms, if you happen to find a Dom who will allow you to do this , then what kind of Dominant is he ?

Also it is not that you will not have any say , but your whole thought process will be different, you are now in the follow position. The Dominant will lead you will follow.

When you first meet asking the proper questions, and giving honest answers would prevent so much drama and heartache. Many for what ever reason are to intimidated to speak up. If the Dominant has caused this, then you need to step away before even meeting him, so there is no connection.

You cannot gain a connection over the internet alone, well it can be done if both are honest. The truth is we can be who ever we want to be, and make you believe most anything without even meeting.

Married Dominants, they do not want a relationship with you. You will never be able to experience what the D’s lifestyle is truly like. You will never get that one on one attention you need, he will never be available when you need him, but he has agreed to take care of you, he has agreed to be there for you. The truth is that will never happen.
He will never leave his wife, his home, his cars, nor his children, nor is he going to part with his money.
Why would he leave he has the best of both worlds? He has everything at home, and someone who will suck his cock on the side. The truth hurts huh?

In the lifestyle training is for the betterment of the submissive or slave.
You have to decide if you want to be part of a growing relationship, or just a piece of ass on the side that no one knows about. The dirty little secret you cannot even talk about, because your married Dom is afraid you will blow his cover.
Sitting at home on your couch, crying because you cannot get a reply to a text is no way to live.
He cannot text because he is having a cookout with his wife and kids.
The biggest myth is you are the only one he is seeing on the side, if you believe this then you are dumber than your Dom thinks you are already, and yes he thinks your Dumb, he thinks you can do no better, and he thinks you are wrapped around his fingers, and when you leave after a year or so he will find someone to take your place. You are not an asset and never will be.
He will keep you until you become either to needy, or a burden to him. Keep your cock sucker shut and things will go as he had planned

This is why it is very important when a Dominant says he wants to train you, you need to get clarification on what he means.

You have the right to explain your needs, and you need to be sure they are going to be met, before you enter the relationship, because once his lies start they are never ending.

Training is meant to be one on one with no interventions. You should be the Dominants main focus during this time.
Telling you that you are not allowed to cum is not training , and I will tell any Dom or Master face to face he is full of fucking shit.

You calling him Sir, Daddy, or Master, and in his mind he is calling you an idiot.

Does anyone know the Definition of the word CUNT?
Cant understand normal thinking.

Men fall under this category as well it is not only women, because I meet stupid everyday, and I meet a lot of CUNTS

If you stay focused you will go far, if you stick to your plan you will go far. If you stick to your goals in life you will go far. If you make sure your needs are met you will go far.

The only way you can be trained is through someone being consistent, consistency is the KEY.


Yours Truly

True Or Fiction

Posted in Anal Plug, Asian, Ass, ass fucking, ass play, Baby Oil, bdsm, blow job, Bondage, butt plug, Chinese, collar and leash, control, cum, cunt, Discipline, Face Fucking, Flogger, fucking, high heels, Humiliation, Japaenese Bondage, Lube, nipples, oral, oral sex, Pain, pussy, serve, shibari, slave, Spanking, Spreader Bars, The Dragonfly Sleeve on October 9, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

As I stood at the gate at OIA waiting , I was wondering what was going through her mind. I had not discussed anything that would take place. I am not one to share much of what is on my mind.

Meeting for the first time, both have expectations, you already know what each other likes and dislikes, The limits and the ones to be pushed.

As she exited the gate I saw she was wearing what she was instructed , a white button dress blouse, and a black skirt, that went below the knees. I walked up a greeted her. Very small, short black hair, no makeup, I like that. I stood behind her and place a small leather collar around her neck, I then attached a leash, and began to walk.

Once we reached the car I opened the trunk and she placed a small bag inside, I opened the door to let her in. Once in the car, she had been instructed to unbutton her blouse exposing her firm breast. I then reached down and pulled her skirt up and told her to remove her panties. Now her breast and pussy were exposed. The windows were down, it was fall, the weather was very nice.

We arrived at my home, I stopped at the front door and instructed her to stand at the door. I walked in and returned with a blindfold, and a pair of old civil war shackles I had bought just for this visit. I stood behind her, place the blindfold over her eyes. I then wrapped her eyes and blindfold with body tape, insuring it stayed in place, and no light would get through. I then took the leash and guided her to the bathroom, and told her to strip, once nude,I guided her into the shower, turned on the water and I started to bath her.

Once I was done I dried her off, and placed the cuffs on, her wrist then ankles. This is what I had been waiting for. I placed my hands on each shoulder, and pushed down instructing her to kneel. Once down I told her to open her mouth, and I inserted my cock. I began pumping slow at first, then I placed one hand on the top of her head , and one on her chin and I fucked her face as fast and hard as I possibly could, Until I shot my load down her throat.

A knock at the door, I grabbed the leash, walked her to the living room, I open the closet door placed her inside, I said sit, not a word, I closed the door, went to answer the front door, and it was two couples I had invited, both Master and Slave. We sat at the table must have been a couple of hours drinking coffee, talking about our week. Then it hit me, wow this bitch is still in the closet.

I excused myself, went to the closet, opened the door and I told her to stand, grabbing the leash, I guided her to the dining room and introduced my little Asian. I instructed her to hold her arms above her head, and to spread, with the shackles still on. I grabbed each breast telling my friends how firm and soft. I told her to turn around, I placed a hand on one ass cheek then the other, showing how firm her ass was. I guided her to the kitchen, and I took the body tape off then the blindfold. I told her how good she was doing, how she made me proud. Stand right there do not move. I left to return with a black leather hood, that had openings for the eyes nose and mouth. I placed it on her head. I had bought her a pair of 6 inch heels I gave them to her to put on. I showed her the coffee pot, where the cups were. I then told her to prepare five cups and bring them to us in the dinning room.

Once the coffee was served, I singled her to sit on my lap, and for her to place her arms around my neck. as we all sit there talking, my hand ran down to her tight pussy, which was very wet, and I whispered in her ear, your a dirty little whore. While we were talking I began to finger her, and pulling on her clit, Once I knew she was about to cum, I stopped. I whispered in her ear again, no no, this is not about you, this is about me.

As we sat talking, she whispered in my ear that she had to use the bathroom. I instructed to her ask for permission to speak, once granted then she may speak freely. I excused us and I took her by the leash and walked into the kitchen opened the backdoor and walked her outside, only wearing a hood, heels and shackles. Once in the yard she looked at me baffled. I looked at her and said go, you told me you had to go to the bathroom now go. Once she had finished, I walked her back in, opened the closet door, and placed her inside, I shut and locked the door and returned to the dinning room. Another couple of hours had passed, and my company was ready to go. Once they had left I went to shower.

I had prepared roast beef, mashed potato’s, gravy, and green beans. I went to the closet, unlocked the door, took her leash and guided her out. I removed the leather mask, and placed the blindfold back on along with the body tape.Guided her to the table and told her to kneel. I prepared my plate then her bowl, I placed my plate on the table, and handed her her bowl with not silverware , and instructed her to eat. While eating I was telling her she was in for an interesting weekend, I was going to do things she had only thought of .

Once we finished eating, and I allowed her to wash her hands, I went to the bedroom, and returned with a small bathrobe. I removed the shackles, and had her put it on. Now was my time to sit outside and relax. I poured me a drink, I took her leash and guided her outside sat her down in a chair across from me, and I told her to spread so I could admire her pussy. The evening was nice a little breeze, and you could hear the ocean, very relaxing.

A friend of mine walked up and asked how I was doing, and I replied well look at what I have, a toy for the week. With out thinking she closed her legs and I said not a word. After her had left, we walked back inside, I guided her to the bedroom. You have been a bad girl, no one told you to close your legs. It is very simple, you do as your told no more no less. I reached up and smacked her face, I said do you understand me, a small whisper, came from her mouth yes Vile.

I removed the shackles, and told her to place her hands at her side. I reached in my closet and grabbed some rope and I began tying her arms in a dragon sleeve behind her back. Once finished, I placed spreader bars on her ankles. I picked her up placing her at the foot of the bed, bending her over until her face was flat on the bed. I walked over to the table and picked up the lube, after I stripped I lubed my cock up and walked up behind her. placing my cock at the opening of her tight ass I slowly pushed in, Until I was as deep as I could possibly be, and I just held it, feeling her, her ass was tightening around my cock. I reached up and grabbed a hand full of hair, pulling her head back, and I began pumping her tight little Asian ass, telling her what a dirty little slut she was, how I enjoyed using her. Once I came inside her ass, I pulled out telling her not to move. I reached in my box and pulled out an anal plug,and I slowly inserted into her ass. Pulling her by her hair, I said stand. I then removed the spreader bars, and replaced with cuff’s. Walked her to my closet, and said it is bedtime. I reached in my box and pulled out my favorite toy, a butterfly vibrator, remote controlled. I placed it over her pussy, turned it on the make sure it was working.

I then placed her in the closet, sat her down, and I placed a blanket over her, and shut the door.. As I laid in bed I turned on the vibrator. I could hear it buzzing, and before I knew it little moans were coming from the closet. I could tell she was about to cum, and I shut it off.

The next morning I opened the door, and helped her stand, as I removed the sleeve, and cuff’s , I said you have five minutes to stretch. I prepared breakfast, scrambled eggs and oatmeal. This time I paced her bowl on the table, and instructed her to eat again no silverware.only her hands.

After she had finished I sat my food on the table, I like watching the news while I eat, I did not allow her to wash her hands yet and instructed her to get under the table, I pulled my cock out, grabbed her by her hair and said please me. While she sucked my cock I ate my breakfast. Just as I took the last bite I exploded in her mouth, telling her not to pull back.

I walked her to the shower turned on the water, and told her to take her anal plug out. Once out I began to bath her, her blindfold still in place I spread her legs so I could wash her pussy and ass. While washing, I told her we were going out for the day. We were going to Orlando to a Dungeon. I hoped she would like it.

Once showered I removed the blindfold, it took sometime for her eyes to adjust. Come on it is time to get dressed. I had bought a small black leather skirt, and a small black leather halter top, along with black heels, no panties or bra. After she was dressed, I bent her over lubed her ass, and fucked her again, I was thinking I still have not had her Asian pussy yet, but soon I shall. After I came again, I reinserted the anal plug, placed the collar and leash back on and walked out.

It took us about 45 minutes to reach the Dungeon, on the way not a word was spoken. Once there I opened her door took her by the leash, and walked her in, and began introducing her.

The first was the spanking bench my favorite, I bent her over cuffing her hands to the legs of the bench, then her ankles, I pulled her skirt up, and singled for a friend of mine to come over. I said when is the last time you have seen an ass like this, small firm, look at the way her pussy is puffed out. as we stood there talking, I poured a little baby oil in one hand, grabbing her hair with the other hand, pulling her hair back, first the right cheek, then the left, this went on for about 10 minutes, her Asian had turned a dark red, I un-cuffed her, and walked her over to the St Andrews cross. I had her back up to it and cuffed her arms, then her legs. I left her there and went to my car to retrieve my bad as everyone was looking at her, once back, I reached in my bag, and Pulled out two big black book binders I use for clips, I knelt down and grabbed one pussy lip and placed a binder on, then the other. Then I grabbed two more, I placed one on each nipple. I then took a small piece of rope, and laced it through each binder on her nipples, then down to her pussy lips, laced through each binder, pulling the rope tight, and tying  off. I walked over to the wall, and picked a eight pound flogger.

I walked over to her I liked this one because it had a swivel on the end, and I began rotating my wrist, until the flogger made contact, I started at her breast, and slowly moved down to her belly, the her pussy area. This went on for about fifteen minutes, she was completely red, and I could see small bruises popping up.Once I had enough, I un-cuffed her and walked her over to a cage, leaving the clamps on, I opened it, told her to kneel, Not a fucking word do not speak to anyone.

About an hour later I came back, opened threw her clothes in the cage and told her to dress leaving the clamps on.

Once in the car, back on I4 heading to the house, I told her to put her cock sucker to work, I made her undo my belt, and take my cock out, as she began sucking I pulled up next to a tractor trailer, and I honked my horn, causing him to look down. I grabbed her hair pushing her face down until I could feel her gagging, until I came deep in her throat.

I love Asian women. small petite. I can just pick up and carry around. Once back at the house, and the door was open I snapped my fingers and told her to go straight to the bedroom. Once inside, I blindfolded her again, this time using only body tape. I walked her over to the bed and instructed her to sit in the middle of the bed. I told her to put her hand behind her back, and I cuffed her. I then laid her back, taking out  a few pieces of rope, placing one around the back of her neck, I then told her to pay back, I took her left leg, and pushed it back until her calf met her thigh, I then tied her leg in place, taking the other end of the rope, I tied the other leg tight, so not both legs were spread wide. I stood at the end of the bed just looking and admiring her body. I could not believe this little whore was mine for a week.

I walked over to my bag and took out a ball gag, and the anal plug, I inserted the plug into her ass., I told her to open her cock sucker, and placed the ball gag on. I then crawled on top of her pushing my cock into her tight pussy, and began to pump her, whispering in her ear, what a dirty little slave she was, how everyone tonight was watching me use her at the dungeon,  after I dumped my load in her. I crawled off, and went and showered, leaving her tied up, I laid down and went to sleep, with her still tied.

What an awesome week..

True Or Fiction.



Humiliation is Needed

Posted in abuse, ass play, bdsm, butt plug, collar and leash, Collars, control, cunt, erotic, extreme, Face Fucking, fuck hole, Golden showers, Humiliation, oral, piss, pussy, sadist, slave on June 12, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

Yes indeed I do believe humiliation is needed to a certain extent, and I will explain why… The D’s relationship is based on a consensual power exchange, both come to an agreement, on what level of Domination and submission each will take on.

Usually when the relationship is just blooming, the submissive has a long list of hard limits, they can be minor to down right stupid, but hey it is the Dominant who has to deal with it.

I have only been with one submissive in my 20 yrs, wait two, the second was a total disaster . It was like I am submissive but only on my terms, man fuck that. In 20 years I have had 5 slaves all long term. When I say slave that is just what I mean, out of those 5 I have been in what one would call true love once, and it will probably never happen again, and I could really careless. It does not mean I would not care for, but love fuck that.

I do not expect everyone to agree with me, and I have lost some followers over my post, which I think is really fucked up, because if you did not like my post why follow me. Or you complain about my language , or how I talk down about women, which is far from the truth. I truly do respect women, I am me and that is not going to change, but after all these complaints, some still read my post, like it does not show up in the stats DUH.

Humiliation is needed for a couple of reasons, I am going to use the word slave, to me a submissive is just in the lifestyle for the kink. not all the time, just most.

While in a D’s relationship the slave tends to become somewhat Lax in the relationship, in order to keep her in her place, some form of humiliation is needed, be it a facial, or my favorite. Putting her in the bathtub on her knees, make her look up at me, and you guessed, start in her hair and down her face just letting it flow. Remove all the towels from the bathroom, and walk out while she tries to figure out what to do at this point.

You then hand her a hair dryer, tell her to fix her hair, do not wash your face, no water at all. Once her hair is done you instruct her to get dressed, and you take her out to eat, with urine still all over her face and in her hair.

Some think humiliation is not needed, or it is abuse. What is being done is, you are reminding the slave of her place, you are reminding her that you are not equal, in any shape or form. She is the bitch in the relationship..

You have her prepare dinner, once finished, when she starts to fix the dinner plates, you stop her, the Dominant grabs a bowl, puts her food in it, with no silverware, she places your food on the table, you put her on the floor, she can use her hands, or just her mouth. Again she is not equal.

I once had a slave walk into a 7/11 with a 12 inch vibrator, and stand in line holding it so people could see it, when she got up to the counter, she asked the clerk if she had batteries for it. Again the slave is not equal.

One time I took her to Mcdonalds , we ordered the food, I gave her money to pay for it, when she was going through her purse she was pulling things out and laying on the counter trying to find her wallet, you guessed it the 12in vibrator hit the counter, and we ate in… Again she is not equal.

Humiliation is needed at some point and time. Now if your slave has issues from the past, you may need to take a different avenue, you do not want to cause more damage.

We are not about abuse, it is a committed loving, consensual relationship, where each knows there place. We as Dominants are responsible for the well being of our property, not only emotionally, but physical.

A few years ago and Master and his slave came over for dinner, I could tell she was not happy with company coming over. she has somewhat of an attitude, it was cutting into our play time. I had her shower,once she dried off, I picked up a black marker, I wrote whore on her forehead, on her upper lip I wrote, insert cock here, and just above her cunt I wrote Vile’s fuck hole. On her back just above her ass I wrote Vile’s other fuck hole. She served dinner and ate, and we set down after dinner and talked, and she remained nude, while we were all dressed. Catch another attitude.

I like to have her shower, fix her hair, put makeup on, have her lay on the bed, on her back, head hanging off the edge, I straddle her face put my cock in, and face fuck her, not letting her swallow anything, so everything runs down her face and onto the floor. Once I dump my cum down her throat, I make her clean up the mess she made on the floor, then I march her in the bathroom, so she can look at her pretty face…

Once during Bike week here, I bought her a plaid skirt that just barely covered her ass, white knee high socks, put her in pig tails, inserted a butt plug in her ass. Saturday around noon, main street in Daytona was in full swing. Before we got out of the car I put a collar and leash on her , and walked her down main street. From time to time I would drop something and make her bend over and pick it up, so everybody could see she wore no panties, and she had a butt plug in her ass…. That was truly a Kodak moment..

At times I do get off on humiliation…