Archive for August, 2014

New Toys For Arianna

Posted in @vile62 on Twitter, 24/7, abuse, Acceptance, Anal Plug, anticipation, Arianna, Baby Girl, bdsm, BDSM Rules, blindfold, blow job, Bondage, butt plug, Commit, commitment, communication, Consensual, consequences, Consistency, consistent, control, Dominance, Dominance Through Intimidation, Dominant, endorphin's, FaceBook Vile Woods, Flogger, Floggers, Fox Tail Butt Plug, fuck hole, Gagged, Manipulation, Master And Slave, Mind Fuck, music, punish, Punishment, Rules, Safe and Sane, session, slave, Sub Drop, sub-space, Submission, submissive, submit, sucking cock on August 31, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

I love Sensory Depravation it can make the mind think of some crazy things. Under the right conditions you can also reach sub-space.

When people talk about sub-space many think there has to be pain involved , and that is so far from the truth it is not funny..

I was talking to someone the other day about planting a seed. Your planting a thought, the thought then becomes a need. This is a way to get something across without really having to say anything, and yes it works.

If that seed is planted you need pain to reach sub-space, guess what ? Then that will be the only way to achieve reaching that point.

In reality reaching sub-space is about getting into ones mind , once your able to do so, the fun is unlimited.

Many also confuse reaching an orgasm during play is part of sub-space, and that is far from the truth as well..

The pain side of things, the body knows when it is being hurt, and there are steps the body takes to protect itself. Once you start feeling pain, your body sends most of your blood to your abdominal area, causing you to get cold, and confusion sets in, and you believe your reaching sub-space. Even during impact play, blood is rushed to your stomach area… Impact play that includes breast, pussy, or ass, all the body knows its being hurt and it is trying to protect itself..

Sub-space is an art, sub-space is the ability to get into someone’s mind, be it erotic or causing confusion. It is how intense the play session is, and this can be done without pain.. The key is to get those endorphin’s flowing, once you have hit that process the sky is the limit.

You start by taking senses away, sight, hearing, are the two most valuable, then of course touch and smell, but you take sight away, and you bring in a little fear, the mind begins to wonder. Music is always good even being played a little loud, losing sight and not being able to comprehend what is going on around you, causes confusion.

I myself do not enjoy marking up my property, I do not enjoy leaving bruises, this is mainly because if something went wrong, and for some reason I had to explain what happened, yea just not good, because even when consensual, sometimes the law does not see it as being consensual.

A good thing to do is to get familiar with BDSM and the Law, I have blogged about this before. This is why I have mentioned it is very important to get active in the local community. You meet people Doctors, Lawyers, you meet people from every walk of life. It is good to know the right people just in case..

Okay I am sorta of bouncing around here today, so back to the toys. Here lately, Arianna’s needs have began to grow even more.

When I first met her I explained BDSM was like a drug, the more you experience the more you need. The more control you give, the more you want to continue giving..

It is a drug and it is a very powerful drug. The one thing you need to be sure of is your dealer is in full control.. Because if he is not you can get hurt and you can get hurt bad.

BDSM is a mind thing, getting in your head, not only getting in your head but having the ability to stay there, get inside move around, look around see what’s going on. Being able to figure you out, know what makes you think, and then being able to toy around a little.

This is achieved through trust, real trust, I mean trusting someone with your life, because if you are not there, sub-space will not be there.
Trust, would your Dominant take a bullet for you? Would you take a bullet for your Dominant? that is trust.

hood

The seed was planted, a couple of days ago Arianna brought up the subject about wanting a hood, but now it has become a need. You plant the seed and you leave it alone.

Arianna loves Butt Plugs but she wanted one with a tail, so I placed an order.
tail

This will surely bring out the submission on a higher level, being home, nude and being instructed to insert and wear.

The new Vibrator I picked out along with the hood and the fox tail, her old one is almost ready to retire. No woman should be without a Vibrator.

pink

I am also looking for a new flogger, but yea I am not paying 90 bucks for one so I will just keep shopping…

Okay I know I jumped around a lot I hope everyone is having an awesome weekend..

One more thing I am preparing more interviews. I have a Dominant who is married with children and he will explain how D’s works in his home.
Also the famous Cinnimon will be dropping in and helping me out with the Baby Girl thing, and helping us understand more. I wish more Baby girls would step forward but she is going to be awesome…

Much Love
vile

Interview With A Slave. Greetings From Serbia

Posted in @vile62 on Twitter, 24/7, bdsm, Collared Slave, communication, Discipline, Domme, exhibitionism, Fetish, fetishes, http://fenixwild15.wordpress.com/, Interview with a slave, married slave, Master And Slave, Rules, Serbia, slave, Submission, submissive on August 30, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

So we get to take another peek into a Slaves everyday life, but now for most of us we travel across the world to a beautiful country.

Where we are traveling BDSM is not accepted in any way, and is looked down on even more so than in the USA.

First I have the questions then I will  post the answers…. IW as going to post this much earlier, but again life happens..

Here is a link to her Blog as well.

http://fenixwild15.wordpress.com/

Hello

How are things going in Serbia ?

I have been really busy here, Arianna’s father passing, now I am selling his SUV just changing jobs, a lot.

I just wanted to ask you a few questions if I may nothing to personal. I have tried to find a program so I could read your blog, but Google or Bing will not translate for me anyway..

1. First how old are you and your Master, and how long have the two of you been married ?

2. Whose idea was it to enter the lifestyle and how willing was the other partner ?

3. Do you have rules and Protocols you have to follow on a daily basis, and if so could you please share a few of them ?

4. You had stated you live an M’s relationship, is that while being outside as well, meaning while your out of the home?

5. You stated BDSM is Taboo in Serbia, have you met any others in your country who are in the lifestyle?

6. How long did it take you as a slave to adjust to the lifestyle ?

7 Is your relationship micromanaged or are you pretty much free to move about?

8. Without going into deep detail is your relationship more about the Disicpline or does it involve kink as well such as bondage ?

9. What advice would you give to those who are trying to convince spouses that the lifestyle is a need for them?

10. Since I have gotten things messed up what is the weather like in Serbia?

Thank you so much for your time….

Vile

Hello Vil. Nor I do not have much time so late with the response. Sorry for Arijanna father.
Here about us :).
  I have 31 years, my Master is ten years older than me. We’ve been married ten years. We have not always been in a D / s relationship. In my life I have always been decisive and dominant, that is a sort of armor. In a very strange way I found out I was a masochist and the pain makes me stronger. I suggested to my husband to try erotic spanking and so it all began. He was very excited. And so I discovered one of my vulnerability and the need that not even I was not aware. I wanted to have a Master who controlled me completely. So we started something new M / s relationship. Given that we are very much together and that is a tacit understand, we have certain written rules . Always seek permission if you want somewhere to go, I have e-mails and codes that he does not know, I ask his opinion of clothing combinations.
  When you get home from work, waiting for him on my knees, without panties beside tables.
One of my favorite rules the bath. Almost always I bathe my Master, and he enjoys so that cares about me.
As for the other people who are members of the BDSM community in Serbia, with a couple of them we are personally acquainted with several them to keep their contact online using social networks. Here, there are not many couples, men who call themselves the homes are usually married, women or married so they bdsm excuse for cheating or read some stupid book as for example 50 shades of gray.
How much time do I need to adjust to life slave girl? In many ways, I quickly come upon us. In some a little harder, but most depend on the current mood, because, in the end, people are living with another bunch of problems.
Discipline … I am a person with a very sharp and venomous tongue :). Most time is spent my training to bite her tongue and resist not to answer hahaha. Penalties are usually ban orgasm as other things such as spanking, scourging, etc. as something positive.
Marriage M / s – advantages and advice: First, a man must be strong enough to prove that its worth, places Master, that my wife loves, protects, understand, given her attention. A woman needs to know its place, at the feet of her husband who loves and adores as much as it was under as slave, it must be inexhaustible source from which her ​​husband / Master takes effect. When everyone knows their place, marriage and relationships can only be developed.
As far as fetishes, we adore bondage, exhibitionism, erotic pictures, predicament bondage, however lots of stuff :).
We are currently looking for a girl who would play with us, where would I tried out as her dominatrix :).
Weather in Serbia is fine, summer and 36 degrees, with little rain :).
To write a message I used google translate, so I hope that I have enough to understand it if I was unclear, I now have more time and I’ll be happy to answer relevant questions.
Best regards from Serbia :))

The trick is to keep breathing…
Vile

 

 

 

 

Do Not Send Arianna Any Fucked Up Emails

Posted in Arianna, bdsm, slave, Submission, submissive, Vile with tags , , , on August 26, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

Arianna received and email yesterday from a male, she did not even finish reading it. She told me she was going to forward something to me so I could read it.

I open and it goes into how a couple were swingers, and explained how his wife became a sex slave to a car salesman, Hmmm sounds interesting. So it goes on hoe they bought a car and the car salesman turned her on, so she became his sex slave and was giving a steel collar.

A picture of Arianna’s collar was attached to the email as well.

I was sorry to hear his wife had passed, but the email was just unacceptable and uncalled for.

There was no reason behind the email, no story behind the email, nothing.

I did email the gentleman and explained how upset Arianna was, and me as well. I also explained if he had something to share it should be in a public forum.

I am not sure what some are thinking, but I suppose many do not think before they hit that send button.

It is not the fact you are talking to a female, a slave or submissive, but you are talking to someone’s wife. Someone who is married.

Your not going to get any pussy from Arianna, that is out of the question. Because with her pussy comes a huge responsibility and I am willing to bet there are not many who would or could step up to the plate.

Arianna as we all know is a very private person, from our blogs you can tell we are both very different. No where in her blog does it give any indication she is open to such emails.
It may not be much to some but to me it is total disrespect.

Have some respect , single , married, dating, it is all about respect.

Here is the email maybe I am blowing things up more than they should be, but the email has nothing to do with anything..

Hi.. I’m Dean and I loved you blog(s). My now late Wife was a swinger in the mid-80’s. We both did not think that would happen in our marriage, until we bought a Honda Accord from a dealer in Chicago. We lived in the north burbs at the time. We’ll my Wife became turned on to the car salesman that sold us the car. He was tall about appox 6’1″
And had a full beard, and my wife loved guys with a beard. I’m only 5’7″ clean shaven. We both worked on the north side of Chicago near that dealer. After we bought the car and got home, my Wife told me that she was turned on buy the salesman. It turned me on also, because she was very sexy, blonde hair and green eyes, and had large tits ( 36 D). So I let her have her way and aloud her to see this guy on Friday night. She was having sex with him for about five hours. My Wife was a 10 at sucking cock and loved to swallow cum. A shame we did not have cell phones with a camera like today!! She told me the details, that she fucked him for hours, and then finished him off by sucking his cock and swallowing his cum, and loved every second if it. Then she told me she would like him as a sex partner. And I told her that it was OK, and have fun, as long as she told me the details after!! She had been with him once or twice a week. Then after a month she came home with a tight fitting collar around the base of her neck, and told me she is his sex slave and he was her Master now.. Not me!!

The collar was locked in place using a key that he had control of. My wife said that they became close lovers, and that she would only satisfy him sexually not me anymore. Whenever he called for her, she would go to him A.S.A.P. . She said she enjoyed his bigger cock more than me. And that someday she would leave me for him. We still lived together for years after until she got sick with liver cancer and died in 2009. Even though I did not get anymore sex from her, I till miss her and love her deeply!!

The Picture he added is of course Arianna with her collar on..
arianna

Vile

8/26/2014 Interview With A Slave From Serbia. This is going to be Awesome

Posted in bdsm, slave, Submission, submissive with tags , , on August 25, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

It has been a while since our last interview, things happen, people get busy, and some may even forget.
These interviews I call them are a deeper look into someone’s life with in the BDSM lifestyle.
We learn something new, I may ask a question that they have forgot to blog about.

We have had several share some pretty personal stuff, and we have learned from them as well. We may of had a question but did not know who to ask or maybe you felt a little uncomfortable asking someone.

Tomorrow I will post the original questions, then her answers.

Much Love

Vile

A Few Things On My Bucket List

Posted in @vile62 on Twitter, Arianna, bdsm, Submission, submissive with tags , , , , , on August 24, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

I think we all have a Bucket list, unfortunately my Fuck list has been a lot longer, and yes it is true I add to that list almost daily. Yea if you add the Fuck You list, it is like a Webster dictionary. I was going to say as thick as a bible but that would not be politically correct. So a Webster’s will have to do. I do hate pissing Tree Huggers off…

So we all have to have a Bucket list in life. I have checked my main goal off, and that would be finding the perfect slave, wife and partner. What I found though was perfection, so if you ever need to know what perfection is check out vilesarianna on wordpress…

Believe it or not my Bucket list is not sexual well okay maybe one but for the most everything is obtainable.
The First Mr Ted Nugent he does an awesome song called Stranglehold. I want to learn to play it note for not just like this video I am going to share. Even if you do not like him you have to listen to this song to really appreciate it. The man is a guitar god.

Second most of us has seen the TV swamp people. I want to go Alligator hunting and kill an alligator.

gator

Something else on my Bucket list is a 1973 Dodge Demon. The thing is I want to restore most of it myself….. This is also doable.
Green

Yea the next one we all know but she does come with a collar.

britney

So yea we should all have a bucket list, no matter how wild, or maybe you think well I will never be able to do that. Go on write it down work on it, it is a goal.. We all need goals.
The only failure is what we want but we never try. If you try and you fail, it is still not failing.
Make Sense ?
Vile

sexual juiciness

Posted in Uncategorized on August 24, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

And more from Arianna

Permission

Posted in Uncategorized on August 24, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

More words from my wife and slave

Kiss The Slave

Posted in @vile62 on Twitter, abuse, Arianna, bdsm, Bondage, clit, communication, control, cum, Cumming, Dominant, FaceBook Vile Woods, Gagged, Master And Slave, owning a slave, slave, Submission, submissive with tags , , , , , , on August 23, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

Giving him the power to Destroy , but trusting him not to. Those are powerful words. Total unquestioned submission.

Have you as a Dominant ever sat back and just looked at your property, and thinking to yourself she is mine? I have created exactly what I needed and wanted. See in the Masters eyes it is about the slaves needs. The wants have nothing to do with anything. If the needs are met, the wants just fall into place.

Submission your partner kneels in front of you waiting and hoping you will use her. This is when your slave gets the most pleasure. Being used and knowing she had made her Master happy.

Did you enjoy yourself Master? Yes Arianna I did thank you. Yesterday the aftercare was lacking, that was my fault. We had played for well over an hour, and I could tell Arianna was exhausted.

Now a little Mind fuck

Hands behind your back, cuffs on, ankle cuffs on, blindfold on. I love using plastic moving wrap, it not only cuts out all light, but it keeps the blindfold from coming off.
Rope green in color, I have several different colors, purple being my favorite. So I grab the green rope, it was within reach. I tied around Arianna’s waist, under her arms, over her shoulders, through the chain on the cuffs, I made a couple of loops, then down to the ankle cuffs, a couple of loops, then back up to the shoulders and down, finishing off at the waist. There we go nice and tight.
Then I pick up the ball gag. Open your cock sucker, mouth opens then ball gag goes in mouth and strapped tight.

Then complete silence, I just stand back and admire Arianna. I am thinking to myself I really own her, mind and body, her thoughts, her cares, her needs, I own everything. Those thoughts are very powerful, I got chills going up my arms and down my back, it was a very intense feeling.

I slam the bedroom door shut it was very loud, and Arianna jumped. I did not say a word, I could see Arianna’s nipples get hard.

I leave the room slamming the door again, I walk into the kitchen grabbing a candle and the grill lighter. Once back in the bedroom I ran the lighter across her pussy parting her lips, then she hears a click, and another click, and she knows what it is. She jumps back, but trusting me enough not to lite it.
Then a click and I lite the candle, holding it above her shoulders and she feels the first drops of wax hitting her shoulders, then her back then around to her breast. This play goes on for about an hour. Once I stopped I whisper in her ear. I could do anything to you I wanted to.

Standing and spreading as far as the chain would allow her to, I picked up the vibrator, turned it on and I asked is that the spot? Arianna mumbled and I moved it down a little and I hit the spot.
I pressed it against her clit, and held it there for a minute, then I began to count down 10,9,8,7,6,5,4,3,2,1 and I pulled it away.
Again, and again counting down each time, and she was almost on the brink of cuming and each time I would pull away..

I un cuffed Arianna and handed her the vibrator, still blindfolded and I told her to cum. Once she came I told her to keep holding the vibrator on her clit, do not move it. She held it there for another 10 minutes or so.

Complete trust, tied, cuffed and chained, with a ball gag, and I was causing her to feel fear. Even for the most when she thought I had left the room I did not. I just stood there in complete silence, admiring my slave and my work…

Kiss The Slave.

If you as the Dominant remains in control you can have the same thing as well. All you have to do is be completely honest and truthful, nothing more..

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Vile

I am my Master’s slave

Posted in Uncategorized on August 23, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

From by beautiful wife and slave.

Do You Really Need To Train Your Submissive ?

Posted in @vile62 on Twitter, bdsm, BDSM Rules, Meeting a Dominant for the first time, Meeting a new Dominant, Meeting your new Dom/Master, Protocol, slave, Submission, submissive, submissive blank canvas, submissive or slave has rights, sucking dick with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on August 21, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

The truth is , no you do not. I know this sounds weird coming from me, but in a real perfect world no training is really required.

Many of you who are in active relationships have really had no type of formal training. Having no training can be okay and find if you are in the right hands.

Now you ask me how is having no training possible and being in a D’s relationship even possible ? How can a D’s relationship work with no training at all?

To train someone is to change someone into something the Dominant wants or needs. Training can be mild to extreme. Training can be very loving, or it can be very hard and strict. That would mainly depend on the Dominant or Master.

If you are truly a Submissive and you have the need to serve, in the right hands no formal training is really required.

Here is my thoughts and my reasoning. You have a lion who gives birth to a cub, once the cub is old enough to learn how to hunt it already has the basic instincts. What the cub now needs it for the lion to teach it how to use the skills it has already.

Okay maybe not the perfect analogy , but if you think about it, it really fits my explanation.

So you being the submissive already know your submissive, and you have the need to serve, be it sexual or domestic or both. What you need is someone who is capable of fine tuning those skills.

A lot depends on the submissive during this growing and learning process. It depends on how honest you have been, it depends on how much you want to put into the relationship , it depends on how much you truly trust your Dominant. It depends on the bond the two of you have formed, but more than anything , How much you want to serve.

See you already have the basic instincts , you already have a vision about what type of relationship you need. The key is finding the right partner, someone who can make you complete.

Many of you I am guessing are not really open to any type of training, your not really interested in being trained. You just need a Dominant figure in your life. Someone who is just going to take control, and lead.

The truth is everything will just fall into place. Everything will just seem so easy, and if continued the transition will be very smooth, and it is something you will not even really notice.

You can meet a new Dominant, which is what you all want. He may say he has 5, 10 or 15 years experience when in fact he has just read 50 shades of grey. This is not always a bad thing if the Dominant has the right intentions, and he to is looking for a long term relationship. Most Dominants who are new and have never had a submissive will never admit that , while I can understand those thoughts it is not really fair to you the submissive.

He will also state that he will train you, but once you have agreed to enter the relationship training never takes place, mainly because he does not have a clue, and you do not say anything because things are moving smoothly.

The only time you should be concerned is when he says lets start your training while he is unzipping his pants.If he tries to give you rules on the first meeting, some rules are okay, if they really benefit you, such as a new bedtime, or maybe a change in diet, but nothing should be sexual at this stage of the game.

If you benefit from just having that Dominant figure in your life with no rules, or task, even protocols then so be it, but you have to make sure your needs are being met, on all levels, and you should never settle for anything less.

The most important thing in your relationship is making sure your needs are met. If your needs are being met,then you are in the right place. If they are not you have the right to question. You have the right to know why you are giving so much and not getting back in return. You have the right to know what steps are going to be taking to make things right, and a time line.

You cannot give and give and get nothing in return, it does not work that way for you and if you allow it to it will not work for long.

You should always come first no matter what, that should never be negotiated.

 

focused Stay Focused, and learn everything will just fall into place.

Vile